My name is Joel; I am from Ntinda area in Kampala.
I am making 30 years this June, working with one of the branches of United Bank for Africa (UBA) in city, as a teller.
I was involved in a ghastly auto crash a few years back on my way home from a night out as the boda boda I was on, got knocked. We were between life and death before God eventually sent a duex mechina to our rescue.
The incident damaged my reproductive system. The doctor declared me impotent ever since then. I met a girl in 2014 that came from Makerere University for her 3months internship. One thing led to another, we both fell in love with each other and that was how the journey started.
During our first date, she told me she was a virgin and I promised her ‘no pre-marital sex.’
One year down the line, we are still on. The parents are aware of our relationship. In fact, I just declared my intention of walking her down the aisle in December, but the question is that how would she feel when she discovers that I’m IMPOTENT?
Dear readers, please advise me, I can’t afford to lose her.
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